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The giftedness Christians recently celebrated Easter. The preceding is Good Friday, the day on which Jesus of Nazareth condemned after the betrayal from within the ranks and was put to death on the cross.
How desperate were his disciples, led by the apostles after the death of your leader. Had he shown them yet as the Messiah and they had placed in him all their hopes for a better life. Even Jesus himself was stricken by doubt: "Father, let this cup pass me by pulling," he said on the eve of his death, as the evangelists deliver. He had to drink the cup.
Is Jesus now failed? If you follow the Christian faith, the answer is: No! He is risen from the dead and ascended into heaven.
One could say: "At Easter (he) live, it needs the Good Friday" falls
In our modern Western society, it is often difficult to deal with failure. Known in the sporting competitions for the top three. Who later was there, you know not, and simply interested in anybody. Not even the Olympic Spirit "The Ringer" is limited. The second is, and for many remains just the first loser, often even the participants themselves
At work it is not usually different. The spotlight is on the successful, the best. Failure is, for many lose. The appreciation will depend on the size of the bank account of the house, from the car ... Then of course everyone wants to be there. Nobody wants to fail just!
course, it represents a common sense that people believe in the success of his project of whatever kind, that it counts officially of his success. On the other hand, the failure is always part of a project. Where is no light and shade, where street traffic, there's congestion, where success is just also fail. Failure is simply part of life.
The crucial question is therefore how each person deals with the failure. He breaks for the failure? Or be broken up in the failure might not illusionary ideas and simultaneously shows the wrong track?
people associate with the personal failure very often the evidence of their own inabilities or its reduced value. This view can, of course, absolutely no room to recognize the failure of the opportunity for positive change.
The first impulse is also to the pain the failure to withdraw as soon as possible. Man flees in excuses: it was the others, the circumstances, the weather ... He goes into a victim and thus brings but for the chance of personal development. As I said, it took the Good Friday to experience Easter! The failure must be endured. Let us give a time of disappointment and sadness, without losing our self-respect and to devour us even before we dedicate ourselves to the real goal: to learn from the failure to mature and grow.
, we might ask ourselves the following questions first:
- How I stumbled into this story?
How desperate were his disciples, led by the apostles after the death of your leader. Had he shown them yet as the Messiah and they had placed in him all their hopes for a better life. Even Jesus himself was stricken by doubt: "Father, let this cup pass me by pulling," he said on the eve of his death, as the evangelists deliver. He had to drink the cup.
Is Jesus now failed? If you follow the Christian faith, the answer is: No! He is risen from the dead and ascended into heaven.
One could say: "At Easter (he) live, it needs the Good Friday" falls
In our modern Western society, it is often difficult to deal with failure. Known in the sporting competitions for the top three. Who later was there, you know not, and simply interested in anybody. Not even the Olympic Spirit "The Ringer" is limited. The second is, and for many remains just the first loser, often even the participants themselves
At work it is not usually different. The spotlight is on the successful, the best. Failure is, for many lose. The appreciation will depend on the size of the bank account of the house, from the car ... Then of course everyone wants to be there. Nobody wants to fail just!
course, it represents a common sense that people believe in the success of his project of whatever kind, that it counts officially of his success. On the other hand, the failure is always part of a project. Where is no light and shade, where street traffic, there's congestion, where success is just also fail. Failure is simply part of life.
The crucial question is therefore how each person deals with the failure. He breaks for the failure? Or be broken up in the failure might not illusionary ideas and simultaneously shows the wrong track?
people associate with the personal failure very often the evidence of their own inabilities or its reduced value. This view can, of course, absolutely no room to recognize the failure of the opportunity for positive change.
The first impulse is also to the pain the failure to withdraw as soon as possible. Man flees in excuses: it was the others, the circumstances, the weather ... He goes into a victim and thus brings but for the chance of personal development. As I said, it took the Good Friday to experience Easter! The failure must be endured. Let us give a time of disappointment and sadness, without losing our self-respect and to devour us even before we dedicate ourselves to the real goal: to learn from the failure to mature and grow.
, we might ask ourselves the following questions first:
- How I stumbled into this story?
(Maybe I fall into this familiar behavior pattern)
- How can I turn the crooked straight again?
- What I will take heed in future special?
- What have I learned from the situation?
Thus, for the failure is now a new way:
- Failure is something very human
- It makes no sense to ask the question of guilt!
- failure to be accepted
- What are my notes the failure?
- The failure I see a chance for a fresh start
Sometimes to us through this "analysis" of the sense of failure appear to be obvious: the goal was too big? Adopting it at all to me? Did I really?
- How can I turn the crooked straight again?
- What I will take heed in future special?
- What have I learned from the situation?
Thus, for the failure is now a new way:
- Failure is something very human
- It makes no sense to ask the question of guilt!
- failure to be accepted
- What are my notes the failure?
- The failure I see a chance for a fresh start
Sometimes to us through this "analysis" of the sense of failure appear to be obvious: the goal was too big? Adopting it at all to me? Did I really?
Sometimes us the deeper meaning will remain hidden. That is not bad; important then is it not by force and thus hurting only themselves.
Maybe help the reader - the reader - these lines, with the future of their own, gracious deal. Keep it up may be saying "you will be wiser in the failure"
the author: André
Leyens, born in 1963, is born in the German-French Belgium. Université de Liège - Belgium - he studied engineering and graduated from the engineering Civil Electromécanicien, Tendance Mécanique (Dipl.-Ing). After six years as a manager, he settled for the Money train coach. Today he practices, "Finance to touch" - as a consultant, trainer and guest lecturer at the European University of Applied Sciences (EUFH) Brühl. Leyens is a single father, played football and badminton in his spare time and played with friends. Another passion is reading. He is a blogger and money committed to education in finance - so that everyone can have fun and understand it: http://www.fizuma.blogspot.com/; http://www.av-fizuma.blogspot.com/; http://www.kids fizuma.blogspot.com /
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